I Sell Sex For A Living

Here is the thing that does not normally come up in general conversation with strangers. Well, actually it is more likely to come up with strangers than with most of my so called friends because of peoples preconceptions and expectations. I sell sex for a living. And believe me when I tell you that selling sex for a living is much harder than you think. I put a lot of work into every transaction that takes place, and in many cases I put even more work into the transactions that do not take place! But the bottom line is that I receive money in return for arranging for other people to have sex. As far as I am concerned, selling sex is a transaction just like any other. I used to run a recruitment business and work as an executive search consultant – a corporate head hunter – and coincidentally I got paid exactly the same percentage for arranging those transactions as for arranging sexual assignations.curvy blonde escort madrid nude big boobs tape measure

I have a very pragmatic view about sex and money. As I say, it is a transaction just like any other. I also have a rather pragmatic view about romance and dating. I think that – in one way or another – everyone is either paid for sex or pays for sex. I know that sounds aggressive and extreme. But in my view, a girl who goes out on a date with a guy that she meets on Tinder, lets him buy dinner, take her to a club and buy their drinks and then has sex with him is doing exactly the same as a Geneva escort. And a guy who meets a woman for a date, buys drinks, dinner and takes her to a club and then assumes that sex must be on the menu because he has spent so much is exactly the same as a guy buying the time of a high class escort.

I often say to the girls who work for me that they have taken the most ethical decision. They have asked themselves the question “why not get cash for sex rather than a handbag and dinner?” and they have reached the right conclusion as far as I am concerned. It is certainly a lot more honest.

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People Do Not Suspect You Are An Escort

It is easy for an escort and her male client to get excessively paranoid about what other people are thinking while they are out and about socially. Here is the truth. Far less people are suspicious of the woman and the male client than you might think. And even fewer people actually care. It is extremely common to be paranoid when you are a professional escort. But the fact is that it is very unusual for people to think that someone is a professional sex worker. Especially if she has been briefed by the escort agency and are dressed appropriately for the occasion.pexels-photo-313690.jpeg

If the escort is dressed inappropriately she will stand out in a bad way. If she is well dressed she will stand out in a good way. . If she goes out with a client, they both may imagine that people know your secret. That can be fun for the client sometimes and in some situations. Being seen with a beautiful and sexy woman from Barbies Babes Escorts Leeds can be a real turn on for a man, especially when he is paying or her time. It is safe exhibitionism showing who he can afford to have on his arm, even for an hour or a night.

As an escort walks through a hotel reception area to get to a clients room or to meet them in the bar, she can easily start wondering if the staff recognize her. Or she might wonder if the hotel guests have worked out what she does for a living. She can start to hope that her client has been sensible and discreet about making sure that she has access to his room. Escort girls hate hotels where the lifts require key card access.

It is very unlikely that any escort will be identified as a sex worker when she visit is a hotel. People are too busy to suspect anything. And if they do suspect that a woman is a sex worker they do not care. She will certainly not be the the only hooker to visit that hotel. She is probably not the first escort to visit that client. If an escort is dressed appropriately for the venue and situation, it is easy to look sexy but not be noticed. That is true even when a woman wants to stand out a little bit. Even when her extreme beauty gets her noticed wherever she goes, people will not automatically assume that she is an escort. They will just notice the woman. Which is good, because it means that the client will appreciate her too. And it is nice to be admired.

The simple secret of being an escort who visits clients in hotels is simple. She needs to learn to relax about her work and not worry about being identified. A wise escort does not advertise that she is selling sex if she wants to stay in business.

IT IS NOT EASY BEING THIS SEXY

Being a San Antonio escort or an escort in Barcelona is not an easy job. There are the obvious issues that go with being a female in any situation as the first of the potential things that will weigh you down. You will have to face the risks of violence, sexual or otherwise.

girl in chair escort benidorm black backless teddy high heels with red solesAs a professional escort you need to be aware of and stay on top of your sexual health. Your gynaecologist will become a close friend and confidant and there are so many risks and situations that you need to manage, whether you indulge in anal sex or not, whether you do oral sex without condom (OWO) or not. And if you do indulge in oral sex without a condom you have to decide whether you are willing to let a client cum in your mouth. And if you do, whether you spit or swallow. Obviously you will not do any kind or penetrative sex without a condom, neither vaginal nor anal. The rules are not the same for a professional escort as they are for any kind of amateur, no matter how enthusiastic or promiscuous she may be. You need to be aware of the risks of being robbed as you will undoubtedly be out late at night and may have a good bag and potentially lots of cash.

All escorts in San Antonio or Barcelona will be working long and very unpredictable hours. But undoubtedly some days even the best escort San Antonio can offer may not be called on at all, which is stressful and paranoia inducing. And then the world will just explode and you will have several bookings in a single night. That means dashing from place to place while looking cool and hot and keeping to the schedule while making each client the centre of your attention and giving them all of your focus and energy. And as luck will have it (Murphy’s Law being what it is) when you have been busy all night, are exhausted, sore and need a break are exactly the times that you will then have a busy day time, with clients wanting to see you from late morning all the way through the afternoon and evening.

MARBELLA SEX

Marbella is all about sex. Well, sex and glamour. Maybe sex, glamour and money. But perhaps that is actually all the same thing. In Marbella, sex, glamour and money are so closely linked that they are almost synonyms. The equation might work in several ways, but always the same three elements. Money will buy you sex and glamour. Glamour will make you sexy and get you money. Being sexy will make you glamorous and get you money. And if you have money and glamour you will definitely be sexy.

tanned legs on white sunbed pool in background escort ibizaIf you want sex in Marbella, you need to be glamorous or have money. If you have money, it makes you glamorous and you can get sex. If you have money, you can get the most glamorous partners for sex. If you are sexy, you can get money for your glamour. If you are glamorous, you can exchange sex for money. Which brings us to the adult industry in Marbella and the Costa Del Sol, the definition of the honest and straightforward exchange of glamour and sex for money.

High-class escort agencies such as Marbella Beauties and 2nd Circle Escort are in the business of bringing the most glamorous and sexy women in the world to one of the most famous playgrounds for the rich and shameless. Scores of brothels, gentlemen’s clubs, lap dancing clubs, pick-up bars such as Joys and all of the other routes for professionals to exchange the opportunity to have sex with glamorous females in return for money.

There is a huge amount of professional sex available for horny men in Marbella. And that is without discussing the semi-professionals who hang out in bars of Puerto Banus such as La Sala in their finest and most glamorous heels and bandage dresses. Scores of beautifully maintained and presented women of various ages and nationalities looking hot as hell and happy to exchange the pleasure of their company and bodies for a good night out, a meal in a top restaurant and just a few presents – a Louis Vuitton handbag or a pair of Jimmy Choos perhaps? But obviously they are not sex workers. Not in their minds anyway. They are just happy to accept that men will spend their money in order to spend time with a beautiful woman.

The high-class escorts of 2nd Circle Marbells Escorts and Marbella Beauties from The Marbella Escort Agency are far more open, honest and straightforward about the exchange of erotic capital that makes Marbella tick. Men want sex with glamorous women, god bless them. And lots of women also want sex with wealthy men. So why not be honest about who is doing what to whom and why?

Much of the social life of Marbella is, at its heart, based around the simple transaction of money for glamorous sex. Some of it is dressed up as romance. Some of it is more simple and less messy. Who is to say which is better? Well me, actually. I really like experts and professionals in every field.

America Is Schizophrenic About Escorts

Running an escort agency business in most situations is just like running any other business. It has its differences of course, but those are more of perception than reality. Well, if you are outside of the United States of America anyway. The United States has this weirdly schizophrenic attitude and actions toward sex and sexuality. They produce the vast majority of pornography anywhere in the world. They have technology businesses such as Pornhub who are at the very forefront of the tech industry, on the bleeding edge of just what can be delivered down a broadband or 4G pipeline. Silicon Valley is home to publicly traded companies who are largely based on putting out some of the most shocking and surprising images and videos I have ever seen – and I am a professional in the sex business, so you would think I could brunette escort in kitchen wearing pink lace panties and white crop tophardly be shocked. But Twitter and Tumblr manage to surprise me every single day.

And yet other technology companies such as Facebook and Instagram wage a constant and never ending battle against the most invidious and dangerous challenge to human morality ever created – the female nipple. Anything that even hints at or portrays such a wantonly disgusting thing is banned from their sites until their human checkers in a battery farm have decided that an image is acceptable. And sexy women who want to have sex with men and get paid for it are persecuted and prosecuted for doing the most natural thing in the world. But Hollywood can make mainstream TV series such as The Deuce and The Girlfriend Experience with prostitutes as the stars. Pretty much nowhere else will you be arrested for running an escort business unless you break one or all of the four golden rules: not under age girls. No drugs. No illegal immigrants. Pay your taxes.

In pretty much every other country in the world, if you follow those rules then running an escort agency is totally legal. It is pretty much only in America that you can but a fifty calibre handgun but not pay a woman to have sex with her. In forty two of the fifty states it is perfectly legal to buy a handgun with a suppressor. What the hell do you need a suppressed handgun for other than murder? Home protection so you can kill a burglar without waking the kids? But you cannot give a guy a blowjob and get a financial reward for it. Insanity.

Ten Hooker Commandments

I know it doesn’t seem likely, but I am a big fan of hip-hop and rap. All the way from LL Cool J  before he went to NCIS Los Angeles and before Ice T joined Law and Order. And a track I have always loved is 10 Crack Commandment by Biggie. So, I have I have done an homage to it (butchered it really) by making it specific to me industry – escort agencies and hookers.

It’s the ten pro commandments, what?
Hooker can’t tell me nothing about this cock
Can’t tell me nothing about this dick, this need, my hustlin’ hookers
Hookers on the corner I ain’t forget you hookers, my triple beam hookers

I’ve been in this game for years, it made me an animal
It’s rules to this shit, I wrote me a manual
A step-by-step booklet for you to get
Your game on track, not your wig pushed back
Rule Number Uno, never let no one know
How much dough you hold cause you know
The cheddar breed jealousy ‘specially
If that man fucked up, get yo’ ass stuck up
Number 2, never let ’em know your next move
Don’t you know Bad Boys move in silence and violence?
Take it from your highness
I done squeezed mad clips at these cats for their girls and pimps
Number 3, never trust no-bo-dy
Your moms’ll set that ass up, properly gassed up
Hoodied and masked up, shit, for that fast buck
She be laying in the bushes to light that ass up
Number 4, I know you heard this before
Never cream pie on your own supply
Number 5, never sell no cock where you rest at
I don’t care if they want a wank, tell ’em bounce!
Number 6, that goddamn credit? Dead it
You think a cockhead paying you back, shit forget it!
7, this rule is so underrated
Keep your family and business completely separated
Money and blood don’t mix like 2 dicks and no bitch
Find yourself in serious shit
Number 8, never keep no weight on you!
Them cats that squeeze your guns can hold jums too
Number 9 shoulda been Number 1 to me,
If you ain’t gettin’ bagged stay the fuck from police
If hookers think you snitchin’ they ain’t trying to listen
They be sittin’ in your kitchen, waiting to start hittin’
Number 10, a strong word called buying backlinks
Strictly for live men, not for freshmen
If you ain’t got the cheddar, say “hell no!”
‘Cause they gon’ want they money rain sleet hail snow
Follow these rules you’ll have mad bread to break up
If not, 24 years on the wake up
Slug hit your temple, watch your frame shake up
Caretaker did your makeup, when you passed
Your girl fucked my man Jake up, heard in three weeks
She sniffed a whole half of cake up
Heard she suck a good dick, and can start a new site up
Gotta go gotta go, more pies to bake up, word up

With apologies to the Original Songwriters: Christopher E Martin / Khary Turner / Khary Kimani Turner

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Molly’s Game & Being In The Game

Let me out this as simply as possible. If you have not yet seen “Molly´s Game”, written and directed by Aaron Sorkin and starring Idris Elba and Jessica Chastain, get moving to your local cinema. It is truly amazing. With Aaron Sorkin writing, the dialogue is fast, witty, thoughtful and intelligent. And with actors like Elba and Chastain, the delivery is worthy of the script and the acting levels are top notch. It is the story of Molly Bloom, a former Olympic level skier who finds herself helping out running poker games – first in Los Angeles with Hollwood celebrities (it is easy to find out who some of the real people were, so let me save you the time – Tobey Maguire, Ben Affleck, Leonardo DiCaprio, Rick Salomon, Nelly and others) then in New York with Wall Street traders, hedge fund managers, property developers and – eventually – Russian mobsters. Which is where her troubles come from.

sexy white dress deep v cut on madrid escort with brown hairWatching for me came with an extra edge of interest, because it has so many parallels with my business in the sex industry. At one point one of her lawyers (an ass hole before she works with Idris Elba) makes the statement “Do not break the law while you are breaking the law.” She asks him whether she has been breaking the law and he tells her that she has not. “But still, do not break the law while you are breaking the law. And that has always been my philosophy too while running my escort agencies, whether in London or anywhere else. Though I do not think I have ever expressed it that neatly. In the movie, Molly runs a poker game, which is not itself illegal as long as she does make money directly from the game itself, but from tips or entry fees. But she makes sure that she does not sell sex (oh the hypocrisy of America!) or drugs. And she is a registered business and pays her taxes.

In the same way, in my businesses I never sell drugs, I only work with girls who are legal to work in the relevant country, and I never, ever, work with an escort who is under eighteen. I prefer them to be over twenty one. I also make a point of having a legally established business structure and paying my taxes. I cannot control what my subcontractors do, of course. But I can make damn sure that I do not break the law while I am breaking the law. Especially as I am not breaking the law in the first place.

Escorting in Tenerife

Working as a professional high class escort in the Canary Islands, and Tenerife especially, is pretty much an all year round activity. Which is not true of the profession in most places other than the big cities such as Barcelona and Madrid in Spain, London, Milan, Paris, Brussels and Milan. Ibiza is terrific during the summer, as is Cannes and St Tropez. Zurich and Geneva can be great all year businesses if you speak Russian, but otherwise they are more winter markets. But the Canary islands generally, and most specifically Tenerife and Gran Canaria are terrific markets all year round. Their location near north Africa means that they have year round sunshine. The winter is warm and idyllic, but being islands mean that they are not too horrifically hot during the summer.

escort tenerife in black and white silk slipMy life as an escort in Tenerife is pretty much like work as an escort anywhere, except that there is less competition, crappier weather, and far less dramatic and beautiful landscape to admire and relax in. I only recently worked out why there is less competition here than in somewhere like Marbella. Because I am perfectly happy travelling and have spent a lot of my career travelling world-wide as a high class companion it did not ever occur to me that the three or four hour flight to the Canary Islands would put escort girls off. Surely if clients will travel to these beautiful islands then the sex workers will follow them? The bar staff, hotel workers and restaurant staff do. But apparently the majority of sex workers are less happy to invest the travel time. And you know what I say? Hooray!

There are lots of clients here throughout the year, but not that many girls. And those girls that are here tend to be working in the brothels. I guess that makes sense if th clients are visiting with their families and need to do an incall instead of having the escort girl come to them. But it does not make sense that this is the only option. So there are very few girls like me working hin the Canary Islands, and a lot if clients to go at. Which is terrific. So if the girls want to stay around mainland Europe, God bless them. I am happy for them to carry on here without the competition, thank you very much.

I Am A Happy Mature Hooker

Hello, my name is Modesty and I am a professional sex worker. I have been for nearly twenty years and I really enjoy it. Nobody forced me to start and nobody forces me to carry on. I do not have a drug problem. I am not in major debt. I have not been trafficked or subject to slavery or exploitation by anyone at any time. (Though I understand that under the law in Alaska a person can be accused of trafficking themselves, which beggars belief and make me happy that I only go to America on Holiday!) In fact, I am able to do what I want, where I want, when I want, with whomever I want, for as long as I want. Which most people would regard as the definition of freedom and happiness. And yet people still think I should be pitied. Well, people who either do not know me well, or even do not know me at all.

mature london escort in black silk blouse and long leather pencil skirtMy twenty years as a sex worker have allowed me to raise a family very happily and with no money pressures. Yes my husband knows what I do and he has no problem with it all. And yes, when the kids reach an age where they can have a proper conversation about it (the youngest two are only ten and eleven) my husband and I tell them about it. In fact my oldest, who is twenty, actually helps with my website and social media. As I have got older the niches I have worked in have changed. I started as a high class escort travelling the world in private jets. Now I am a mature escort working in London. It is a nice niche as the clients are (generally) older, and a bit more experienced with escorts. And they also tend to know exactly what they want sexually, which means a lot less mind reading on my part!

My twenty years “on the game” have funded my children through private schools ( actually public schools, who were told that I ran my own marketing business from home. Which was accurate if a little misleading!). They have bought a very nice five bedroom house in the Home Counties of England where we keep horses in our own stables. And I own a portfolio of properties in London and “up north”. Basically, I have not needed to work for years. But the job now is for cash flow while I build wealth for myself and my family.

MANAGING AN ESCORT BUSINESS

The functional aspects of running a companion firm in Benidorm are really no different to managing other organisation or organisation. You have to track your clients, orders and also shipments. You have to track the finances. Financial obligations need to be paid promptly and also Completely. You have to make sure that you have a firm grasp on your debtors and also see to it that you make money as promptly as feasible as well as well as maintain your bad debts to the minimum. Naturally, you are dealing with cash money a lot of the moment which is not a trouble in itself. And if you are a company that acts lawfully as well as pays its tax obligations, the most convenient thing is to obtain that cash money paid into the banks. Nonetheless, you could not be certain that the talent is functioning within the tax program and as such they sometimes get a little bit wary concerning paying cash into financial institutions when an ID could be should make a down payment. So occasionally a little flexibility is called for to earn certain every little thing functions appropriately.

Marketing and also sales in the escort company primarily includes 2 elements; optimising Google ranking and also Search Engine Ranking Setting (SERP) and making use of AdWords, and also sales through telephone as well as WhatsApp. Promoting the most hot and also some of the most attractive escorts Benidorm has to offer is absolutely nor enough. If no one sees your site, having fantastic ability is meaningless. Your item is just as successful as your ability to place them before the right clients, in the ideal girl in chair escort benidorm black backless teddy high heels with red solesnumber, at the correct time. And when you get the eyeballs and produce interest, you then need to be able to convert them into company by speaking with potential customers over the phone as well as talking through messaging apps such as WhatsApp as well as Signal. So you have to incorporate effective search engine optimisation with the job of skilled as well as efficient telephone receptionists.

Running an escort agency in Benidorm is not as simple as people who have never been n the sector would expect. Spain does absent you with the trouble of lawful problem in the same way as some countries such as Ireland or the Scandinavian nations, however you do have everyday service concerns. Advertising and also sales; handling the skill; managing the operational aspects of the business.

Managing the talent is typically one of the most difficult and bothersome part of the work. It is absolutely the most loaded with drama and also crises-driven activity. Obviously, just like any kind of service or market, avoiding crisis and dramatization is the indication of a well run organisation. A dilemma that happens when is just happen-stance. The very same dilemma happening repetitively is poor monitoring. Companions are no different to any individual else, they have their issues and their worries. They have their anxieties and desires. As well as, like anybody else they have their emotional concerns and varying degrees of ego, worry as well as paranoia. Handling all those components effectively is the mark of a good companion firm.